#𝟰 𝗡𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗮𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗼𝗴𝘆💰
The day I found out that my male colleague in a similar role earned about 10% more than I did, I was furious and I marched into our manager’s office, declared that this was unacceptable and demanded the same pay.
He complied, but in retrospect, that outcome was due to luck and kindness rather than a well-thought out negotiation Strategy.
Denmark’s Equal Pay Act mandates equal pay for equal work. Yet, according to Statistics Denmark (2024), women still earn 𝟭𝟮.𝟯% 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗲𝗻. For minoritized persons, the gap is even wider and often compounded by bias, fewer opportunities, and limited pay transparency.
A UCPH (2022) study found that pay transparency laws reduced the gender pay gap by around 7%. The gap reduction was driven more by a lower increase in men’s salaries and less by a significant increase in women’s salaries. The study also found that the wage gap was reduced when employees 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗲𝗴𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱 their salaries.
Research shows women are less likely to negotiate, and when they do, they are often penalized for it.
𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘨𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘴 not 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.
🗣️ It is a conversation about value and aligning your contributions with fair recognition and reward.
💡 Here is how you can unapologetically negotiate your compensation:
𝟭. 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸𝗲𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗵𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸𝘀
Use tools like Jobindex, Glassdoor, Payscale, or union salary databases to understand your market range. Knowledge turns uncertainty into leverage.
𝟮. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸 𝗯𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗿𝘆.
Salary is one piece of a bigger puzzle. Ask about bonuses, pension contributions, professional development courses, certifications, mentorship programs, flexible hours, remote work options, or extra vacation days. Professional training or education support can increase your long-term value far more than a small pay bump.
𝟯. 𝗙𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁.
Replace “I’ve worked hard” with “My work created xxx impact” or “I contributed to a project that grew client retention.” Linking your work to measurable outcomes shifts the discussion from personal need to business value.
𝟰. 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗲
Rehearse your “value story” with a friend, mentor, or mirror. The goal is not perfection but comfort. The more you practice, the easier it is to stay calm and grounded. Anticipate questions, practice calm responses, and know your bottom line.
𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿: If your compensation doesn’t align with your impact, it’s not a reflection of your worth. It is a signal to start a conversation and an opportunity to negotiate and advocate for fairness.
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This is the fourth in a 10-part series on thriving in the workplace. Watch this space every Tuesday for inspirational content written by Phaedria for ProWoc.
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